Friday, February 20, 2026

LIKE FATHER LIKE SON


 Looking through the window, I heard him speaking—sounding like a local "area boy" on a tour of the neighborhood. It took me back years to when he was just a child. I can’t even wrap my head around his age now because he’s so grown, but I remember him running around the compound.


Even then, I knew it wouldn't end well. His father would send him to buy cigarettes, and his uncle would send him for cocaine. Now, his youngest brother is being led down that same dark path. Word eventually reached his father that the boy is now a smoker himself; the father threatened to "deal with him" if they ever crossed paths, but I doubt that will happen anytime soon—if ever.

It’s a classic case of "like father, like son." He started on the wrong foot, coming from a home where his parents fought daily, threatening to kill one another. His father would shamelessly steal his wife’s money and sit at home doing nothing. What a platform to stand on.

Now, having dropped out of school, he survives on manual labor—cleaning gutters, scrubbing latrines, and bricklaying. He returns from these grueling jobs without even bathing, lacking any sense of hygiene, only to smoke his money away and gamble the rest. It is a fruitless cycle, and I truly pray he finds a way to retrace his steps soon.

SPIRTUAL ALIGNMENT

 


The Reality of Spiritual Alignment

Adapted from a message by Apostle Michael Orokpo

"You claim to be a Christian, yet when the devil seeks to ruin the life of a young girl, you are the first tool he picks up.

You find yourself arguing about God with your uncle—a man who holds a verified rank in the kingdom of darkness. You don’t realize that, in the spirit, both of you are actually in the same camp. The only difference is that he knows exactly who he serves, while you are claiming a Kingdom you know nothing about.

True Christianity isn't a title; it is a life aligned with the Spirit. If your fruits serve the enemy, your 'claim' is just a noise."

Key Takeaway

Apostle Orokpo is challenging the "cultural Christian" to realize that spiritual authority isn't about what you say, but whose nature you manifest in private. If the devil can use you as easily as he uses an occultist, then your "rank" in the Kingdom of God is non-existent.


 


Saving for the Rainy Day: Security for the Future

Life is full of sunny moments, but the rain—unexpected bills, medical emergencies, or job changes—is inevitable. Saving isn't about restricting your life today; it’s about buying your peace of mind for tomorrow.


Why It’s Essential

* Turns a Crisis into an Inconvenience: With a backup fund, a broken car is just a repair, not a catastrophe.

* Avoids the Debt Trap: You won't need to rely on high-interest loans when things get tough.

* Reduces Stress: Financial security is one of the best ways to protect your mental health.


How to Start

* Start Small: Consistency is more important than the amount. Even 10% of your income adds up.

* Automate: Save first, then spend what is left.

* Be Strict: Define what an "emergency" is so you don't dip into the fund for wants.

  "A small leak can sink a great ship, but a steady reserve can weather any storm.



 The Eloquent Stranger: Two Encounters

On my way out this morning, I encountered a man who appeared to be mentally unstable. He approached me and asked if I would buy him some roasted plantain. I looked at him briefly and continued walking, but as I moved away, he called out in impeccable Queen's English, "Is it that you don’t have any cash?"

Coincidentally, I had a similar experience yesterday. I saw a woman who was also acting erratically; she seemed to be struggling with her mental health. However, she was speaking to herself in a very refined British accent. It made me wonder about her past—had she lived abroad? What could have happened to lead her to this point?

A Bit of Perspective

It’s actually more common than we think for people struggling with mental health to retain their education and speech patterns. Psychologists often note that:

 * Muscle Memory: Language and accents are deeply embedded in the brain; even when someone loses their grip on reality, their "intellectual" voice often remains intact.

* The "Fall from Grace": Many people roaming the streets were once professors, lawyers, or students abroad before a traumatic event or a chemical imbalance changed their lives.


It’s a sobering reminder that mental health issues don't discriminate based on education or background.

Monday, February 2, 2026

TILL THE END

In the dim glow of his living room in Lagos, Mr. Titus sat across from his best friend, Roland. The night was quiet except for the low hum of the ceiling fan.

“Why not do away with her?” Roland asked, his voice low, testing the waters.

Titus shook his head slowly. “That stopped being an option long before we exchanged those sacred vows.”

Before Roland could reply, the front door flew open. Mrs. Margaret, Titus’ wife’s younger sister, rushed in, her face tight with worry. No words were needed—Titus and Roland understood instantly. Something terrible had happened again.

They arrived at the hospital in a blur. Mrs. Titus lay pale on the stretcher, eyes closed, as nurses wheeled her urgently toward the theatre. Titus walked beside her, gripping the rail, while Roland kept pace, silent and grim.

In the waiting room, hours stretched like days.

“This one is worse,” Roland muttered.

“I know,” Titus replied quietly.

“I hope she survives it.”

Titus turned to his friend with a look that mixed surprise, irony, and deep pity. He shook his head.

“See,” Roland continued, voice cracking, “I know what I said earlier, but I never meant death. I’m sorry. You may not believe me, but I wish her well. It’s just that—”

Titus raised a hand sharply, stopping him. He gently pushed Roland’s comforting hand off his shoulder.

Roland’s phone rang. He glanced at the screen. “My wife again. Fourth time tonight. I told her I was here.” He checked the time—nearly midnight. “I need to head home.”

“So you’ll leave me here alone with her all night?” Titus asked.

“Her sister is coming back, isn’t she?”

“She said she was.”

“No, she’s not,” Roland said firmly.

“What do you mean?”

“I overheard her on the phone, speaking our dialect to her husband. She said she’s done taking care of her sister.”

As if on cue, the door opened. Margaret walked in.

Titus shot Roland a small, triumphant look. “See? I told you she was coming back.”

Margaret approached. “Thank God you’re still here, Mr. Roland. You’re about to leave? Please, I’ll ride home with you.”

Titus frowned. “Take you home? I thought you were staying with your sister.”

“No, not at all,” Margaret replied. “I came back to tell you I’d returned, like I promised. But I’m tired. I’m done with her issues. I need to step away.”

She turned toward the exit. “I’ll wait by your car if you’re ready.”

Roland looked at Titus.

“Go ahead,” Titus said quietly. “Your wife is waiting. Margaret has tried.”

Roland hesitated, then nodded and left.

Later, in the dimly lit patient room, Mrs. Titus stirred. Her voice was weak. “Where is my sister?”

“She’s gone home,” Titus said, sitting close, holding her hand.

“She left me…”

“She went home. Don’t worry—she already told me the last time was her last.”

“So why are you still here?” she asked, eyes filling with tears.

Titus’ voice hardened with resolve, though anger flickered beneath it. “I am your husband. My place is by your side—for better or for worse.”

“But you knew,” she whispered. “Before we married, you knew about my weakness.”

“Yes. But I had already fallen in love with you.”

“You thought things would change?”

“I hoped they would. And I was ready for the consequences if they didn’t. I just wished they had.”

Tears slipped down her cheeks as she squeezed his hand.

Years passed.

Whispers followed her in the market, in the neighborhood. People called her a fool. “Even if the stories are true,” she would say fiercely to anyone who dared speak ill of him, “I won’t back off him. Those who don’t know our story call me foolish. Those who do know and still say it? They’re the worst—the most ungrateful.”

One day, from behind the bars of a police cell, Titus looked at his wife standing on the visitor’s side.

“I heard you’re standing up for me against your own family.”

“You are my family,” she said firmly. “My husband. A friend in need is a friend indeed. They stood by me during those dark spells—I appreciate them. But they couldn’t stay till the end. You did. Through the disgrace, the worst moments… even the last time the market women beat me for stealing again. It caused my third miscarriage in a row. You stood by me.”

They held each other’s gaze through the bars—pain, regret, but above all, unbreakable loyalty.

In time, the storms passed.

On a bright, sunlit day, Mr. and Mrs. Titus sat together on a boat cruise, the water sparkling around them. Their children laughed and played nearby, running across the deck, carefree and happy. Titus reached for his wife’s hand. She smiled at him, the kind of smile that carried every trial they had survived together.

They had endured—for better, for worse, till the very end.

And in that moment, with the breeze on their faces and their family whole, it was clear: love had won.

The End

LIKE FATHER LIKE SON

 Looking through the window, I heard him speaking—sounding like a local "area boy" on a tour of the neighborhood. It took me back ...