WHAT HAPPENED TO ME!

WHAT HAS HAPPENED TO ME!

"Can I stay with you?" asked the lady.

"I'm already with someone," he said, showing her his ring.

"Can I come and massage you?"

"I'm not feeling any pain, I'm okay."

"Can I walk with you?"

"I love walking alone," replied the man.

"You're a Liverpool fan, aren't you? You know what they say, 'Never walk alone'!" said the lady.

"Yes, I know," he said, singing a song by Victoria Orenze, "I walk with God the Father, walk with God the Son, walk with God the Spirit, three of them join."

"Let me take care of you."

"Someone better is already doing that job."

"Who?"

He sang a song by Moses Bliss, "Jesus is taking care of me, oh oh oh!"

"Okay, let me look after you then."

The man continued singing, "Jesus is looking at me."

"Try to understand, man." The man smiled...

"Can I ask you a question?"

"Okay..."

"Who are you?"

"What kind of question is that? Can't you see me standing here?" asked the lady.

"This is who I am," said the woman.

"You are lost, my friend. You don't know who you are."

"No, this is me! I'm not lost, insisted the woman.

"You are lost," insisted the man. "This is not you. Please find yourself."

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DRUGS ? FAITH?

DRUGS? FAITH ?

A man was surprised to see his Pastor buying drugs from the chemist. "Pastor, what are you doing here?" asked the man.

"What does it look like I'm doing?" replied the Pastor. "Buying drugs, of course."

"For whom?" asked the man.

"For my son and me," replied the Pastor.

"Why are you surprised?" asked the Pastor. "I told you my son was sick, and you prayed for him. You didn't say anything about buying drugs ?"

"I thought you were a man of faith," said the man. "I didn't expect to see you buying drugs."

"I am a man of faith," said the Pastor. "But I'm also a realist. I gave you what I had - prayers. If you wanted drugs, you should have gone to the chemist yourself."

The man looked sheepish. "For your information, sir, my son is alright now, thanks to your prayers."

Pastor looked stunned...

What's your take ...

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LABARINA - 3Ls

LABARINA - 3Ls

"As I reflect on the current situation and what I'm fighting for, I've come to realize that three key ingredients are essential for effective leadership and structure:

1. *Accountability*: When a system is in place, accountability drives responsibility. By holding individuals accountable for their actions, they are more likely to take responsibility seriously and own up to their mistakes.

2. *Responsibility*: As individuals take ownership of their actions, they become more responsible. This leads to a sense of necessity, where they feel compelled to act responsibly and make a positive impact.

3. *Compassion*: With accountability and responsibility in place, compassion can flourish. Compassion is the final ingredient that completes the leadership structure, allowing leaders to understand and empathize with others.

I firmly believe that these three elements are crucial in achieving effective leadership and positive change. By prioritizing accountability, encouraging responsibility, and fostering compassion, we can create a system that truly makes a difference.

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LABARINA - CAUGHT OFF GUARD

LABARINA - CAUGHT OFF GUARD

"I believe that being caught off guard or surprised is often due to a lack of information or preparation. Let me illustrate this with a story from the Bible. Jesus Christ once performed a miracle, and his disciples were astonished. He asked them, 'Why are you so surprised? Didn't you see the miracle I performed earlier? Is your heart so hardened that you didn't notice?' This shows that being surprised can be a result of not fully believing or having low expectations.

In other words, being caught off guard or surprised often stems from a lack of information or preparation. When we're not adequately informed or prepared, we can be taken aback by events or circumstances. This highlights the importance of staying informed and being prepared to avoid being caught off guard."

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LABARINA - SOLOMON SAID THE TRUTH

LABARINA - SOLOMON SAID THR TRUTH

"When I first read Solomon's words 'vanity upon vanity, all is vanity,' I didn't fully understand. But as I've gone through life, it's started to make more sense. Right now, I'm feeling hungry and famished, and I'm looking forward to an upcoming program. I've been thinking about what to do and ideas are running through my mind.

"I remember telling a friend that no one should steal food to eat because the disgrace that comes with it isn't worth it. When we're hungry, we might feel like we need food desperately, but once we eat, the satisfaction is short-lived. We might even suffer consequences for getting food the wrong way.

"This reminds me of how our desires work in life. What we crave today might be gone tomorrow, and what we have today might not be enough tomorrow. That's why Solomon said 'vanity upon vanity, all is vanity.' He tested everything and realized that our desires and pleasures are fleeting and unsatisfying.

"I think this is what life is all about - constantly yearning for more, but never finding lasting satisfaction. That's why it's important to focus on what truly matters and not get caught up in our temporary desires."

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LABARINA- FREEDOM OF SPEECH

LABARINA - FREEDOM OF SPEECH 

"While everyone has the right to freedom of speech, not everything said is necessarily true or worthy of serious consideration. People's opinions and beliefs can be influenced by their environment, experiences, and biases, which may lead to misinformation or inaccurate assumptions. It's essential to critically evaluate information and arguments, considering multiple sources and perspectives before forming conclusions. We should avoid jumping to conclusions or accepting something as true simply because of who said it. Instead, let's strive to think critically and make informed decisions based on evidence and reason."

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LABARINA - WHAT MATTERS MOST

LABARINA- WHAT MATTERS MOST

"As I walked around today, I noticed something that has been on my mind for a while now. Parents often prioritize their children's academic education over their moral and spiritual development. I recall learning about an Asian country where children are taught morals and values from a young age, starting at age one, two, or three. In contrast, many parents here focus solely on academics, pushing their children to excel in school but neglecting other essential aspects of their growth.

While it's great to see parents enthusiastic about their children's education, I believe this imbalance can have negative consequences. Children learn from multiple environments - home, school, church, and their social circles - and parents should be involved in all aspects of their lives. It's crucial to strike a balance between academic excellence and moral/spiritual development.

Parents should also be mindful of the company their children keep, the influences they're exposed to, and the values they're taught in school. By prioritizing both academic and moral education, parents can help their children become well-rounded, successful, and positive contributors to society.

As a Christian, I believe it's essential for parents to teach their children Christian morals and values, as these will shape their worldview and guide their decisions. However, many parents seem more focused on their children's academic success than their moral and spiritual growth.

I'm not saying that academic education is unimportant, but rather that it should be balanced with moral and spiritual development. Parents should take an active role in teaching their children values, morals, and Christian principles, ensuring they become responsible, compassionate, and virtuous adults."

HOW TO REAP WHERE YOU DIDN'T SOW

LABARINA- HOW TO REAP WHERE YOU DIDN'T SOW

"When you feel upset about not being celebrated in general, take a step back and reflect. Ask yourself:

- How many people have you impacted in your circle?

- How many lives have you changed for the better?

- How many persons have you celebrated?

- What makes you think you deserve to be celebrated?

Often, we overlook the fact that those who are truly impactful may be forgotten or overlooked. But when people remember, they feel remorseful and apologize sincerely. However, if you haven't made a positive impact, the apology may come across as insincere, merely to avoid your complaints.

Remember, no one owes you anything if you haven't given to others. Don't expect to reap what you haven't sown. If you want to be celebrated, focus on making a meaningful difference in the lives of those around you.

That's my message to everyone. God bless you all!"

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A Mother's Honest Opinion: A Deal-Breaker

A Mother's Honest Opinion: A Deal Breaker

[Setting: A lady and her proposed fiancé are having a conversation]

Fiancé: "I have to be honest with you, after meeting your mom, I've decided to call off the engagement."

Lady: "What? I don't understand! My mom is the nicest person on earth!"

Fiancé: "That's exactly why I'm cancelling the engagement. She's so nice, and it's unfortunate that she has someone like you as her daughter."

Lady: "What did she tell you?"

Fiancé: "She told me everything about you - how mean you are. I sensed it, but I wanted to confirm. She advised me that if I went ahead with the marriage, I'd need a lot of patience, and to be honest, I don't think I can afford that luxury."

Lady: "How dare you! I can't believe what I'm hearing! You think you're so perfect, don't you?! I'm going to... I'm going to... Ugh!!" [The lady starts ranting, becoming more and more agitated]

Fiancé: "You're reacting just like your mom said you would. I feel sorry for her, she doesn't deserve a daughter like you." [The fiancé shakes his head and walks away, as the lady continues to rant and eventually comes to her senses, becoming sober]

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EVERYMAN ON HIS OWN, GOD FOR ALL

EVERYMAN ON HIS OWN, GOD FOR ALL

"I was deeply pained after listening to a preacher yesterday, and I felt alone. But then I started thinking and reasoning, and I came to a realization. In life, we're all born separately, like twins or triplets, and we have our own lives to live. Our lives aren't tied to others, and ultimately, we're responsible for our own decisions.

I realized that I needed people around me to motivate me, which is a good thing. But at the end of the day, when you don't have others to motivate you, you must motivate yourself. Thankfully, we have access to inspirational resources like the internet, ministers, and the Bible.

My advice to myself and others is to stop complaining about our environment, parents, spouse, or children. Instead, we should take responsibility for our own lives and focus on our own growth. Let's stop using others as an excuse and stand on our own. May God help us all in Jesus' name, amen."

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WOLVES IN SHEEP CLOTHING

WOLVES IN SHEEP CLOTHING 

Highlighting the idea that people often claim to be fighting against corruption or injustice, but in reality, they might be motivated by their own self-interest or feelings of exclusion.

- Some individuals become angry or resentful when things don't go their way or when they perceive others as having an unfair advantage.

- They might complain about others cheating or having opportunities they didn't have, but in reality, they would have done the same if given the chance.

- The issue isn't the perceived injustice itself but rather that they feel left out or deprived of the same benefits.

- It's easy to complain or criticize when one is not in the spotlight or directly benefiting from the situation.

- The question is, would they have acted differently if they were in the other person's shoes?

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LET'S GO SHOPPING

LET'S GO SHOPPING 

Lady 1: I don't know why the wrong guys are always coming my way.

Lady 2: Birds of a feather flock together.

Lady 1: What do you mean by that?

Lady 2: Think about it. How do you think those guys feel when they see you? What comes to their minds when you dress to kill? They address you the way you are dressed, skimpily.

Lady 1: So, you're saying it's my fault?

Lady 2: No, I'm just saying that maybe you're attracting the wrong attention. You need to present yourself in a way that commands respect.

Lady 1: I never thought of it that way.

Lady 2: Exactly. You have the power to change the way people perceive you. Dressing modestly doesn't mean you're boring or unfashionable. It means you value yourself and want to be taken seriously.

Lady 1: You know what? You're right. I need to make a change.

Lady 2: That's the spirit! Let's go shopping and find you some new outfits that will make you feel confident and respected.

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CHRISTMAS EVE

[Juma]

Hey guys, gather around. I want to tell you a story about my Christmas holiday. It's a pretty cool one, so listen up!

So, my dad came back after spending four months offshore. He was supposed to be gone for three months, but he stayed an extra month. My mom was not happy about it, and she wasn't ready to receive him when he got back. But my dad is a wise guy, and he had a plan.

[pauses for dramatic effect]

He came with his elder sister, who's also my mom's godmother. She's like a mediator, you know? So, she went inside and brought my mom out, and my mom was still angry. But then, my dad surprised her with a brand new car! She was so shocked that she started screaming and hugging him. All the anger just melted away.

[smiling]

We all went inside and started celebrating. Later that evening, my dad took us to a fast-food restaurant for dinner. We had a great time, and then we dropped off my aunt at her house. When we got back home, my parents went to their room and shut the door. My little sister Abigail and I were curious, so we knocked on the door, but they didn't answer. We were like, "What's going on?"

[laughs]

[Juma]

So, the next morning, my sister Abigail and I woke up and went to have breakfast. Abigail walked up to dad and asked, "What happened last night?" And dad was like, "We were having an adult talk, sweetie. Children weren't allowed." Abigail was curious, but mom intervened and said, "It's out of stock, period. Stop asking questions." Abigail was a bit sad and walked away angry.

After breakfast, dad told mom that he heard there was going to be a choir rehearsal later that day, after Bible study. Mom was in the choir, so she was going to stay behind and prepare. Dad was like, "Why are you having a carol service as a video? Why not just have it in the evening and be done with it?" Mom tried to explain why they were having the carol service on Christmas Eve, but I didn't quite understand.

Then, mom started telling dad about the history behind the nine lessons and carols service. Apparently, a Catholic priest many years ago noticed that people were going out and getting drunk on Christmas Eve, so he decided to hold a service to keep them in church till Christmas morning. That's why the pastor started the tradition of having the nine lessons and carols service on Christmas Eve.

[Juma]

I was fascinated by the story, and mom continued explaining that the pastor wanted to bring back the tradition of having a special service on Christmas Eve. She told us that the nine lessons and carols service was a way to keep people engaged and focused on the true meaning of Christmas, rather than just going out and getting drunk.

Dad nodded, seeming to understand, and Abigail looked curious. I could tell she was still wondering what had happened the night before, but mom just smiled and said, "Maybe one day you'll understand, sweetie."

To be continued...

A MIRROR TO THE SOUL

A MIRROR TO THE SOUL

"The mother's voice was trembling with anger as she confronted her 22-year-old daughter. 'What have I not done for you? I took you to the best schools, provided for all your needs, made sure you went to church...'

The daughter listened calmly, her expression unyielding. 'Go on,' she said, her voice dripping with sarcasm.

'Why do you choose to live this kind of life and disgrace me?' the mother continued. 'Why do you choose this path after I've tried to put you on the right one?'

The daughter raised an eyebrow. 'What am I doing that you're not guilty of?' she asked, her voice rising. 'Is it about drinking alcohol? You drink too. Is it about sleeping around? You've done that too. Is it about going to clubs? You're always at the club. Is it about smoking? You smoke too.'

The mother's face reddened as the daughter continued to list off her own vices. 'Is it about committing abortion? You've had more abortions than I can count.'

The mother's anger deflated, replaced by a sheepish expression. 'It's not about that,' she stammered.

'Then what is it about?' the daughter pressed. 'If you know the right path, why aren't you on it yourself? I learned all I'm doing from you.'

The mother's eyes dropped, unable to meet her daughter's gaze. She knew she had been caught in her own hypocrisy."

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MAN DOWN

MAN DOWN

FESTUS: Please don't mind that girl, she's a useless girl.

AFIZ: You seem so angry with her.

FESTUS: Yes! Don't mind her, she's a stupid girl walking up and down. It serves her right, well beaten.

AFIZ: I heard she even contacted HIV/AIDS

FESTUS: My goodness, You said what?

AFIZ: Yes, HIV/AIDS. 

Festus' mood changed to a very sober one.

AFIZ: Is anything the matter? What's with the sudden switch in your mood? 

Only God knows why Festus' mood changed.

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